Friendship isn't inherited, transitive, or reciprocal

Just because I grant you friendship access to me doesn't automatically grant your kids access to me, doesn't automatically grant your friends access to me, and doesn't automatically grant me access to you.

• I don't necessarily trust the kids of my friends. The privileges of friendship aren't inherited. Derived classes of a friend aren't necessarily friends. If class Fred declares that class Base is a friend, classes derived from Base don't have any automatic special access rights to Fred objects.
• I don't necessarily trust the friends of my friends. The privileges of friendship aren't transitive. A friend of a friend isn't necessarily a friend. If class Fred declares class Wilma as a friend, and class Wilma declares class Betty as a friend, class Betty doesn't necessarily have any special access rights to Fred objects.
• You don't necessarily trust me simply because I declare you my friend. The privileges of friendship aren't reciprocal. If class Fred declares that class Wilma is a friend, Wilma objects have special access to Fred objects but Fred objects do not automatically have special access to Wilma objects.